After I had attended a support group at the Mood Disorders Association for 14 months it was suggested that I  facilitate the Tuesday afternoon group held at the MDA office.  My first response was, I can't handle this group! I was worried about how I was going to manage the time and give everyone a chance to share; I was just plain scared and shaking in my boots.  As well as fear and worry there was a genuine desire to give back because the group had done so much for me.  I also knew I had one qualification, I genuinely cared about each person who walked through the door and I was glad to see everyone. 

For some reason I really do miss people when they miss a meeting and I tell them so when they show up next time.The first meeting for me to facilitate arrived.  I was nervous, but Greg, the person who facilitates the Thursday afternoon group at the MDA office, co-facilitated with me and it went OK.  My worry about time management worked out with no problem at all. Now that I've been facilitating the group for 7 months I absolutely love it. I am mindful that it is individuals that make the group and that each and every person in the group is very important; they are my little family.  I look forward to seeing everyone each week. 

Those early days of apprehension and doubt have finally given birth to some confidence I didn't know I had.  I've had some large groups and a few strange situations have arisen. One situation was particularly difficult; I handled it and all the others with grace and ease. Taking the MDA's Facilitator Training gave me an excellent framework and reference point to conduct the group meeting.  The training workshop was an excellent opportunity to share concerns and bond with other members of the MDA family.

I feel I have grown so much in the past 7 months and it has been such a rewarding experience.   For anyone who is considering facilitating, look at it as a wonderful opportunity to give back what you have received. 

Margo